The Beginning...

Start Here.

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Just like when you start doing anything for the first time you first have to know where your going and your end goal. The only problem is that I have no idea where this journey is going to lead.  With this blog I am going attempt
to piece together the process that comes with marrying someone who is incarcerated, with a focus on murderers. I am fascinated with the thought process that goes through everyone's minds. How do they justify it? What do family members think? Are there any advantages? These are the questions that first come to mind.

I can not wait to read about the true stories of people who have "fallen in love" with someone they have never met,why they do it, the weird fetishes, and the kinds of people that this process will allow me to find. This journey to finding my answers is going to take some twists and turns and I might run into some dead ends, but I am going to attempt to find out what goes on behind Marrying a Murderer.